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This Toronto Dominatrix loves torturing captive subs and slaves with temperature play. There are many ways to play with the sensation of temperature torture – both ice and molten wax are fun extremes with which to experiment. In my experience, most subs are familiar with ice play, and quite a few have heard of wax play. It’s very different once you’ve been at the mercy of a sadistic Domme who is committed to using differing temperatures to titillate, torment, tease, and test a sub’s vulnerable, exposed and bound body. I’d like to share with you a picture I took during a recent session. This sub was originally very hesitant about heat play, but decided that he trusted me enough to move forward, push his limits, and enjoy the sensations that extreme temperature can bring. Now wax play is one of his very favourite pursuits, and he absolutely loves leaving himself completely at my mercy. As much as I enjoy using ice and wax individually, I find that the combination makes for an exceptionally erotic experience. The contrast is deeply stimulating, and I look forward to introducing curious new subs to the wonders of temperature play.
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This is an interesting side of kink I haven’t really discussed on the blog, and yet I’ve gotten many inquiries about it. There is a large portion of the BDSM community who absolutely loathe so-called “Fin Dommes” (financial Dommes). There are also quite a few profiles that exist solely to exploit the kink scene for financial gain. These two facts make financial domination a very tricky subject to address – and I’d imagine even tricker to navigate for those who have a legitimate fetish for it. Believe me, they do exist! There are several different fantasies that seem to be popular in the financial Domination scene. The most common fetish is probably blackmail. I get a LOT of requests for this particular kink. People interested in financial blackmail want to be forced to hand over their online banking details, and have a Domme threaten to expose and humiliate them either personally or professionally if they don’t hand over the information and money the Domme demands. A popular form of financial blackmail occurs from a distance – using tools like TeamViewer, a Domme can remotely access a sub’s computer and can gain access to sensitive information. This is dangerous unless you […]
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The other day I was looking through my Google Analytics, and I found that I’m receiving a lot of visitors from around the world. Out of 196 countries, I’ve received visitors from 138 countries. I must say, this is very flattering! So first of all, thank you to everyone who visits my site, whether you’re around the corner or around the globe. Sadly, I can only do in-person sessions with those who travel to me, or those who pay my travel costs to come to them. I’ve received countless emails along the lines of “I can’t come to Toronto to see you, and I can’t afford to bring you here, and there are no great dommes where I live”, followed by expressions of sadness and frustration. Luckily, thanks to high speed internet providers, built in cameras in laptops and phones, and innovations in general, Online Domination is a service I am able and happy to provide! How does online domination work, you ask? It’s simple – we engage in a video chat, and for the duration of the session, you follow my instructions as though we were together in person. The only difference is, instead of me doing things, I’m ordering […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy I thought I’d talk about an activity that I offer that seems a bit edgy to some in the scene. It’s called sounding (a form of CBT). Basically, it involves inserting rods of various sizes into the urethra. The sounds are typically made from surgical grade steel, but there are variations that vibrate or deliver electric shocks internally. Sounding is best left to those with experience as the urethra can become damaged if proper technique is not used. That being said, with the proper Domme, sounding can provide an intense sensation unlike anything else. If you’re looking for something that’s a little out there, I recommend trying it out! Under proper supervision (and obviously with the proper equipment and hygiene) you might discover a new obsession! This picture was taken during a sounding session with one of my more experienced clients. He’s had his urethra gradually stretched over the years, and can now take quite a large sound with no problem. In fact, we’ve ordered a set with larger sounds so we can continue to stretch him out! I incorporated a medical theme into this session, and told him that Dr. Mindy was going to continue […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy My newest Toronto Domina is a real treat Some of my favourite sessions are duals, which involve another sexy dominatrix. Mistress Pain Jane has been a delight for many, and I am thrilled to introduce my newest apprentice, Lady Alice. While the pictures in the gallery are only a tease, she is physically stunning – standing average height with beautiful C-cup breasts, a luscious ass and long black hair, she’s an absolute goddess with a very mischievous side, and is also under 30. You, my loyal clients, are going to love her. She has a firm hand, and just loves to strap on a big rubber cock and make subs squeal with pain and delight. Those of you who really like to treat yourselves will enjoy her enthusiasm and imagination, as we’ve already invented a number of scenes that will entice those looking for that extra oomph. My dual domme stories are extremely popular scenes that many have requested, but here are some new ideas you can fantasize about, that we can make a reality. – I am a doctor, she is my nurse. Together, we tie you to my medical table, and we playfully run […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy When it comes to BDSM, domination, sadism, masochism… just femdom in general in this extremely fun world we’re all a part of, most people assume that a domme’s clients are all male. Most people (inside and outside of the scene) simply assume that my only paying clients are men. This couldn’t be further from the truth. I have a number of women who pay for sessions – anything from strap-on play and extreme pain to golden showers and everything in between. It is true- sometimes I am a dominatrix for women. “But why would a woman pay for that?” I am often asked by people who find it hard to believe. Quite simply, the same reason I have men pay me – because I am a professional who knows exactly what I’m doing. The more complicated answer is not as quick. I’ve glossed over the psychology of domination a bit before. Many of my male clients come from positions of power. High level management, company owners… people who are in constant control and need me to ground them and make them feel very different than they usually do. These men love someone putting them in their […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy (featuring ‘Tony’) Tonight I want to let one of my clients, Tony, contribute a guest blog about a recent cuckold session he had with me. He had emailed me about this (more like a testimonial), but I asked if he’d like to elaborate a little for the benefit of my blog readers. Here is what he sent. I hope you enjoy. For the longest time, I fantasized about being cuckolded. I always felt weird and ashamed about it. Essentially, I’ve struggled with these weird urges to be embarrassed, insulted, ordered around for most of my life. I’d always thought I had a normal upbringing, but I realized in hindsight that my mother always yelled at my father and he always looked like her servant in a way… so maybe there’s something there. Either way, I’ve had my relationships, treated my girlfriends/wife like queens, and yet, while having sex, something in me fantasizes about them deeming me not good enough. I feel like they enjoy it with me to an extent because they’ve loved me, but I get more excited than ever at the thought of some muscle head with a huge cock just bringing out an animal in […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy I haven’t really discussed the truly pure corporal punishment session. I don’t do these too often, as I’m busy fulfilling other requests, but I really do adore them when I do get a chance. Call it the sadist in me, but even with my sweet demeanour, I do love causing pain (in the most enjoyable sense). A true corporal punishment session is very intense. There may be an underlying theme or roleplay involved, or perhaps my sub just needs some heavy handed punishment. I’ve had scenes where the sub comes over and we pretend that I’m administering pain to try to extract sensitive information from him (a sort of spy fantasy). On the contrary, I’ve had subs who require no scene or context – they simply want me to punish them while we discuss normal topics like weather or their day-to-day lives. There is definitely something intriguing psychologically about someone enjoying a spiked paddle marking his ass while he brags about his son’s latest soccer game. A third type that’s interesting is those who wish to atone for certain sins they’ve committed, asking me to repeat what they’ve done while hurting them, or recounting the details […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy Good evening! I’d like to thank you all again for your lovely compliments on the blog! I’ve got a photo shoot scheduled soon, so keep an eye out for gallery updates! I thought I’d take some time to write about one of my favourite kinks – medical play. I have a unique advantage in this area, as I’ve had actual medical training. Those who have had the pleasure of visiting Dr. Mindy’s clinic can attest to my enthusiasm! I’ve got a few very eager co-Dommes who are in training as my nurses, which is very exciting. Of course, each appointment with Dr. Mindy is different, depending on the needs of the patient. Regardless, I like to start off with a basic clinical examination. I instruct the patient to remove their clothing. Then I record height and weight, and make a note of each in my chart. Next, I use my stethoscope to listen to the patient’s heart, and take their blood pressure. This is where I encounter some interesting results. It seems many of my patients experience mild tachycardia in my presence, though they report no noticeable symptoms. Perhaps I shouldn’t wear a corset in the […]
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Happy New Year to my fellow kinksters! It’s been a busy time over the holidays, and your Mistress caught that dreaded flu. Feeling a lot better now, but I have quite a bit of pent up energy! Thankfully I have many subs and slaves eager to be back under my feet. I thought I’d share some shots from a recent CBT session. This one is fairly light on the pain side of things, but we had a lot of fun and got some great pictures. Slave J came over eager to be immobilized and tormented under my sexy thigh high boots. I quickly got him bound and wrapped and lowered him to the floor. Then, of course, I walked off to get a glass of wine, leaving him writhing helplessly in nervous anticipation. No matter how much they squirm and protest, I always find them fully hard when I return! As you can see, I had J bound so that only his cock and balls were visible and accessible – but only to me. I couldn’t help but smile as I gathered clothespins, floggers, feathers, ribbon… I contemplated bringing out the candles for some wax play, but J is still […]
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