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Posted by: Mistress Mindy I wanted to touch on a subject I feel very strongly about. I often get emails from potential clients who are hesitant to divulge the extent of their fantasies for fear of scaring me off. I understand that confessing your innermost desires to a sexy, confident stranger can be a bit intimidating. I absolutely get how daunting that can be. However, I want to assure anyone reading this that it is virtually impossible to shock or scare me! Even if I don’t accommodate a particular kink, I will NEVER judge anyone for their private fantasies. Please, don’t hesitate to share your thoughts with me. Get weird! Let your inner freak out! This is a safe space. I respect the enormous amount of trust my clients place in me and honour it with complete discretion. In the same vein, I know I have a privacy policy on the website, and I’d like to take this chance to emphasize how seriously I take this. I have measures in place to protect the privacy and identity of everyone who visits me. I have been lucky enough to meet some incredibly successful people in the course of my kink career. […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy This is a very quick post just to stay in touch. Having been so busy with work and my favourite holiday, Halloween, it’s not been easy to make time to write. Keep visiting though – many new blogs are coming, as are some new photos! I haven’t really posted much about my favourite activities, so I thought I’d devote this week’s blog to one of my top ten kinks – OTK (over the knee) spanking! I absolutely love having a grown man stretched across my lap for some much needed discipline. I have a particular sub in mind while writing this. He can take hours of punishment, whether I’m using a paddle, a flogger, a crop, a cane, or my favourite – my bare hand. It is so exciting watching my blank canvas turn deep pink and then bright red. I like to take my time, running my fingers lightly over the warm flesh between round of smacks, enjoying the heightened sensitivity and teasing my poor helpless sub. Let me know if you’ve been misbehaving lately at home or at work. I’ll be happy to give you the spanking you deserve… 😉
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy Today I had a lovely strap-on session (one of my specialties of course) with slave Kevin, who hasn’t had the pleasure of my company for weeks as he’s been traveling for business. Needless to say, his tight ass was missing my strap-on and he couldn’t wait to get into my playspace and on his knees. I greeted him at the door and he handed me my tribute and a lovely bottle of wine he’d brought back from his most recent trip to Argentina. Kissing his cheek, I took his coat and gestured him towards the basement stairs – by now he knew exactly where we were headed. I called down and offered him a drink, and then grabbed some bottled water from the fridge and met him on the sofa in the basement. As I passed one of the bottles to Kevin, his eyes traveled down my shapely legs to my feet, clad in a pair of exquisite satin peep-toe pumps he had sent me as a lovely surprise while he was away. I laughed and took a seat next to him, stretching my legs out so my feet rested in his lap. “God, I’ve missed […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy I’ve been incredibly lucky to meet some wonderful new subs in the past few weeks, and I’ve had a lot of questions about etiquette and the way I prefer things done. Of course, every Domme is different, so I thought I’d expand on my etiquette section here and let you know my personal preferences when it comes to communication, sessioning, and other forms of interaction between myself and my lovely subs and slaves! Initial Communication I often get emails from people who have stumbled across my site who simply state “I’d love to book a session – what are your rates?”. I completely understand the desire to get this question out of the way before you proceed to a booking, but tribute rates vary widely depending on the length of the session you’re interested in and the activities you’d like to include. An ideal initial email should include a brief introduction summarizing your interests and experience. It’s absolutely fine if you have no experience or don’t really know what your specific interests are yet – just introduce yourself to me with some information about what got you into kink, what sort of things you’re curious about, […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy I had a rather unique session this past week which I’ve been dying to write about on the blog! I have a new client, “Vee”, who has such interesting ideas! It’s rare that a sub can surprise me with a new, fun, kinky concept I’ve never explored, but Vee seems to be very talented in this regard! Here are some of my session notes: Our session took the form of a sexual therapy appointment to address Vee’s failed relationships and ascertain why he is unable to please a woman and maintain a healthy relationship. Of course, to start things off, I had him give me his height, weight, and I asked if he had ever measured his penis. He said that he had, and that he was about six inches, erect. Sensing an issue with his measurement, I had him remove his clothes for me, and I took an accurate measurement – sure enough, his penis was just under 4 inches fully erect. He’d been measuring from the base of the testicles and falsely adding inches to his size. I informed him that he had a very juvenile penile presentation, with a small penis and very […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy Hi again everyone! Thanks so much for all the lovely feedback on the blog posts. The response has been overwhelming, so I’ll try to post much more often! Thankfully I seem to have an endless supply of sessions to fuel the creative fires! I’ve enjoyed a relaxing weekend off from kinky activities, and I’m raring to get started on all the fetish fun I have planned for the week. I’ve got CBT (cock and ball torture) planned, some very kinky Mommy role-play, a hot interrogation scene, some fire and needle play, a thorough medical examination… it’s going to be a busy week! I’m also going to be shopping for some new toys to play with, so keep checking my wishlist – I so appreciate the gifts you’ve sent so far! TorontoDomme.com officially launched about a year ago. It’s incredible how time flies and how many new and wonderful subs I’ve met in the past 12 months! I got a cake to celebrate, and now I have all these candles lying around! Who’s up for some wax play? 😉 If there’s a topic you’d like to see covered on the blog, or any questions you’d like me […]
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Hello again, my kinky friends! Tonight I did another very exciting session with a new slave of mine, who we’ll call T. T has a few years of experience in BDSM and is primarily interested in forced feminization and strap-on play (two specialties at once!) He can tolerate pain as punishment but is much more interested in the sensual side of BDSM. I thought I would take my time with him tonight, so I planned a fun few hours for us. Slave T was five minutes early, as always, and he brought a lovely bottle of wine as a gift for me. He handed me that and his tribute, and I asked him to grab a few glasses and a corkscrew and meet me in the basement. I had gone shopping earlier in the day and had plenty to surprise him with. Usually, I order my subs to do the shopping for our sessions, but this time I decided I would pick out everything we would need for a night of girly fun. T grabbed the items I had requested and made his way down the stairs into the basement. His eyes widened when he saw everything I had set out for […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy This update will be short and sweet, just like the session itself! P is one of my long-term golden submissives. This of course means that once a week, P comes over to my dungeon (or sometimes, I meet him for breakfast) and I have a special drink ready for him. Now, if you’re familiar with golden play (another specialty of mine), you’ll know that there are many different forms. Some people really like the sensation of a Goddess releasing her warm urine all over their skin. Some like to drink it straight from the source. Others enjoy having me fill an enema bag and experiencing my warm golden gift that way. P enjoys coming over, fully dressed for his busy day of meetings with clients, and sitting across the dining room table from me. I’ve usually just rolled out of bed, tousled my long blonde waves, and thrown on a skimpy outfit to meet him. We make civilized conversation as we make our way to the dining room, where his morning drink awaits. Without fail, every time P sees that champagne glass of, well, pee, he has an instant erection. Often I’ll tease him, my stockinged […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy I thought I would start sharing some of the stories from the depths of my dungeon with the people who frequent my site. As a professional and lifestyle Domme, I’m quite active in the scene and always have something fun going on in my basement lair. If you have any questions or comments about any of the stories I share, you can feel free to email me at mistressmindy@torontodomme.com. While I am the star of all of my sessions, they wouldn’t be nearly as fun without an enthusiastic and willing sub to play with! Today’s slave, Ryan, shares my fetish for mummification and sensory deprivation. He came to me initially as a complete novice with a head full of dirty, kinky scenarios he was eager to try. Tonight I decided we would do a complete mummification wrap with duct tape. Of course, once I had him immobilized and completely at my mercy, I couldn’t resist indulging in some CBT and a lot of very frustrating tease and denial play! I started off having Ryan strip naked for my inspection. He had prepared himself nicely for me – clean, freshly shaven, hands at his sides and ready to […]
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