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Experience ASMR with Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Mindy
Hello lovelies! If you’ve been on the internet (or more specifically YouTube) any time in the past five years, you have probably noticed the ASMR craze that’s slowly taken over. Perhaps you’re reading this eagerly, having become a fan yourself. For those of you who don’t know, I’ll provide a brief explanation. ASMR stands for autonomous sensory meridian response, a sensation most describe as a pleasant, light, tingly feeling they get when certain stimuli are present. These stimuli vary wildly depending on the individual, but some of the more popular triggers are whispering, tapping, personal attention, light stroking, and pampering. Lots of times, the ASMR-tist is calm, soothing, and kind – but there is a popular subset of content where creators are rude, bitchy, demanding, and in control. I’ve long been a fan of ASMR, and for me, it feels like a combination of goosebumps, your first sip of an excellent glass of wine, and the sensation of sinking into a warm bath. Who wouldn’t be intrigued?! I’ve found huge success integrating both of these type of ASMR into my BDSM play, and thought it was time to tell the world about it! If you’re one of the lucky ones […]
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Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Mindy embraces home automation... in the form of loving slaves
Hello kinky friends! No, I have not forgotten how to spell – today’s blog touches on and combines a few concepts. Let’s start with automation – how many of you have recruited Google or Alexa to make your life easier? We have truly taken massive strides technologically – making tasks simpler, using voice commands to perform simple tasks like turning off lights, buying things online (like you can for me right now from my Amazon Wishlist) and so much more. As many of you know, I LOVE when my subbies are dedicated to foot worship. Men and women with a foot fetish fit in very well in my life, and my dungeon. One very generous and thoughtful sub decided to gift me a foot massager. The note read: “Mistress Mindy, I hope your feet are always pampered as they deserve.” Now, I first want to say to that lovely sub, that receiving gifts always makes me happy, and I couldn’t appreciate his generosity any more. Men like HIM are the ideal sub, and I love developing long lasting relationships with people who understand that. But I digress! I couldn’t wait to try the foot massager, and rest assured, I did. […]
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A Toronto Dominatrix needs to understand tones, themes and subtleties to excel at her job
Hello kinky people! I hope everyone who attended the Bottomless Golden event had a fantastic time! We had a truly memorable night and I look forward to many more collaborative events with gorgeous Dommes! If you haven’t already, be sure to sign up for my mailing list, so that you can keep up on all the latest Multi-Domme events and new releases from me! So – Tone. Tenor. Vibe. Mood. Feel. We can call it a lot of different things, but today I want to talk about the tone of a scene, identify some of the common ones in my practice, and discuss negotiating with your Dom/me. I’ll include specific examples so hopefully you can see what I mean, but as always if you have any questions, shoot me an email or leave a comment! To address tone, I think it’s wise to first address theme. I suggest you choose a theme if you have a particular fetish that you are primarily devoted to exploring, and if you would be disappointed if a mistress went off on a tangent with other kinks/subjects/fantasies. Themes can vary wildly, but for an example, choosing a medical theme will keep things med fet focused […]
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1 Fabulous Toronto Dominatrix? Try 4! Join us for this exclusive golden event!
Hello kinky friends! Lots of fun kink to talk about in June, but I couldn’t resist posting something about my very first kink event at this play space! Together with the lovely and devious Bossy Bastienne, the incomparable Jayne Doe, and seductive Goddess Evangeline Ducharme, I bring you: 

BOTTOMLESS GOLDEN A multi-Domme event June 6th – 6pm-9pm Join us at my play space for an exclusive kink and sex positive event! This is a social event for dedicated perverts who understand what it is to crave the nectar of a Goddess. Maybe you wake up in the morning with your mouth dry, and you grope around on your bedside table for a glass of water. How much more refreshing would it be to down a glass of goddess piss? It’s the ultimate taboo! Spend an evening in the sinful suburbs, being deliciously perverted under the noses of ordinary people. Witness your stunning Dommes in a casual environment, feeding off each other’s kinky energy and collaborating as goddesses should. As your divine Dommes lounge in the Jacuzzi in the setting sun, we’ll all be refilling glasses plenty and expecting our eager little subbies to drink up! Imagine the thrill you’ll feel […]
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Whether you deserve a light spanking or a bloody beating, Mistress Mindy is the Toronto Dominatrix who will do it right
Hello Kinky loves! It’s been a while! Hope you haven’t spotted any tumbleweeds rolling across this blog… In all honestly, it’s been a hell of a start to the year! Things have taken a little longer than predicted to settle down, but now that they are, I’m raring to get going on some of my kinkier resolutions for the year! I’m sure I have a few lucky subs willing and eager to sacrifice their flesh to feed my desires? 😉 In that vein, I saved some pictures from a recent experience, and thought I’d share with you. I often get messages wondering just how hard I’m capable of hitting. I guess I look like a delicate flower! That could not be further from the truth. I have a group of very dedicated submissives who are into what I call “extreme spanking”. These sessions are prolonged and very painful. They consist largely of heavy, constant spanking with my hand and with any implements we may choose to incorporate. I will tell you, I have done sessions like this lasting 6 hours, with breaks for my arm, but not long ones. I can inflict as much pain as you are comfortable receiving. […]
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Why book a session with Mistress Mindy when I can have you at my beck and call?
Hello lovelies, So many clients inquire about sessions and then we go back and forth working out a time that works, enjoy the session, and look forward to booking again. For some subs, it’s once a month. For some, it’s once every few days. As much as I can appreciate a good routine, one of my favourite client relationships is when a sub asks to be at my beck and call. What does this mean? It means a client provides me with a generous tribute at the beginning of a month, and then they’re on the clock so to speak. I can contact them at any time and demand their presence, and they need to accommodate my desire, or suffer the consequences. Now, I do need to point out that it’s not something I do with new clients – it requires trust (both mine and the client’s) and comfort. Additionally, it is well discussed beforehand to ensure it’s within reason for the sub. For example, if there are family obligations on the weekend that must be considered, obviously I won’t demand his/her presence at that time. One of my favourite subs, C, has offered this testimonial to describe November of […]
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Don't you want to come help Mistress Mindy get out of her heels?
Hello my lovelies! I’ve just arrived home from a pedicure, and while I wait for my sub, S, to come and pamper these feet some more, I thought I’d write a little bit about one of my favourite kinks – foot worship/foot play! I’ll set the scene for you a little bit by describing a recent session, as is my wont! My darling sub S has been a regular of mine for over a year now. He first approached me when he saw a picture of my feet posted on a kink website and couldn’t resist my high arches and perfect pedicure. Since our first time together, he’s been a devoted sub, booking many a session just to while away the hours massaging my feet while I enjoy a glass of wine. But occasionally, we concoct a plan a little more kinky! For this session, we combined tease and denial with foot play – the perfect combination, in my mind! I had S strip down to his boxers and kneel on a pillow on the floor in front of me. He looked up at me with wide brown eyes, silently begging – so I told him he had permission to […]
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Happy New Year from your favourite Dominatrix in Toronto
Happy New Year, my kinky friends! As we embark on a New Year together, I’m sure quite a few of you are making some resolutions. I thought I would share mine with you, in the hopes of inspiring some kinky plans of your own! (and hopefully this little tease of me getting ready to go out will help) First and foremost, after a fantastically fulfilling year with some of my favourite subs, I am looking to open my schedule up to even more sessions. I will still enjoy the random and fun encounters with new people, but some of my most cherished relationships are with subbies who nurture my creativity, inspire my blogs, pamper me with gifts and experiences, and allow me to play out some of my wildest fantasies in tandem with theirs. I find these relationships deeply satisfying – after all, D/s is my lifestyle as well as my life’s work. If you are looking for a Mistress with whom you can truly grow as a person and as a submissive, you’ve found Her! Secondly, as most of you know, I’ve somewhat recently moved into a new space. My basement dungeon is lovely – a “soft-core” sitting room […]
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Merry Kinkmas from your favourite Toronto Dominatrix, Mistress Mindy
Hello kinky friends! In the spirit of the season (and to answer the hundreds of you emailing and asking about an Amazon Wishlist!), I thought I would revamp my existing one, bring it up to date, and link it more prominently on the blog and my site! You can find the link here: http://a.co/1BkJpRN I of course welcome any and all gifts from my favourite subs and anonymous admirers. Quite a few of you have chosen to send me an item you’d like used on you for the session you’ve booked – and I have to say, I love that. I’ve had some requests as well for an address to send random gifts and mail to. I will be opening a PO Box soon, and will post the address here for all to see! I would love to see what kinds of things you’re all dying to send my way. Christmas has always been a huge deal for me. I love the season – the family, the friends, the wine, the food – it’s all very special to me. It’s been quite a pleasure to incorporate my love of the holidays into some of my sessions! Yesterday, I had the pleasure […]
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The Strongest St. Andrews cross in the GTA – maybe Canada?
Hello lovelies! As my last blog was a bit more about scheduling than seduction, I was inspired today to talk about my favourite piece of furniture in my dungeon-in-progress – my custom built St. Andrew’s Cross! There’s a reason why I’ve boldly asserted that I have the strongest St. Andrew’s cross in the GTA – possibly Ontario – maybe even Canada! I’m sure the experienced among you have seen the commercially available crosses on the market. I’ve owned a few of them myself! I find them to be attractive, but fairly flimsy. Since I specialize in fairly exquisite torment and torture with subs of all shapes and sizes, I really needed something that was going to stand up to a lot! Like my subs, this cross can take a beating! Not only is it double the usual thickness, it’s also chained to studs in my wall. I have personally attached over 600 pounds of weight to the cross, and while it’s designed to move, it doesn’t budge. That’s the other thing – my cross is designed to swing out from the wall with the right pressure, leaving the sub dangling a bit forward. It’s a unique position for sure, and […]
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