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Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Mindy is so detail-oriented, you might say she can be a bit anal.
Hey lovelies,  This latest blog is focused on the subject of a consistently large number of requests! One of the staples of D/s, anal play can be immensely satisfying for both beginners and experts alike. I know I sound like a broken record here, but it’s truly one of my favourite kinks!  A recent sub, A, came to me dying to try anal play but desperately afraid that it would hurt. He had spent years pleasuring himself to scenes of busty, Dominant women bending men over and plowing them with large strap-ons, but when he’d tried even small toys on himself, he was greeted with burning and pain. He was desperate to let an experienced Domme guide him through his first anal session. He quickly found that when he was aroused, his nervousness faded a bit, and he felt very comfortable with me. I used heated lube, a gentle, lubed finger, vibration, distraction, and plenty of time to ease him in – and what do you know, before the end of the session, he was bent over my massage table, taking my 6 inch strap on up the ass and begging for a bigger one! We have another session scheduled this […]
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Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Mindy Bondage
Hello Lovelies, I receive emails all the time from people asking about bondage. Every level – from ‘I’ve never been bound at all’ to ‘I need to be restrained, and not just a pair of handcuffs behind my back’ to ‘I barely want to be able to breathe’. Granted, the last one ventures into the extreme with mummification (which I LOVE), but we’ll save that for another day. I should also be clear that while I am familiar with Shibari (the magnificent art of intricate Japanese rope play), this blog will not deal with that. Bondage requires a lot of trust, whether you’re experimenting with a partner, or even with your sexy Toronto Domme! You are giving complete control to another person, so make sure you’re comfortable with the person you choose to explore with. Bondage is perfect for restraining a sub for a number of purposes, but I’ll focus on two. Pain – perhaps you deserve to be punished because you’re not applying yourself properly, or you’re a masochist who loves the feeling of a well-placed paddle; of course, human nature is to attempt to avoid pain. The right use of ropes and cuffs helps you receive that beating […]
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Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Mindy's magnificent clevage
Hello lovelies. When I am out and about and people ask me what I do for a living, and I tell them I’m a dominatrix, almost every one of them is fascinated. They ask how long I’ve been doing it, how I got into it, is it safe, etc… But the one question that intrigued me enough to write about it on my blog is: Where do you get your clients from? More relevant to all of you – where and how do YOU find a dominatrix, and how do you ensure she’s the right domme for you? As great as it would be to say it’s a brick and mortar solution like Walmart, where you can go out, browse shelves and head to checkout – sadly it’s not that easy. Granted, you can look into the kink community and head for fet events and possibly meet a Dominatrix there, but it’s a bit of a crapshoot. For most of my clients and many out there, finding the right Domme follows today’s trend of instant gratification and online shopping. In order to preserve privacy and feel safe, most clients search from their phones, tablets and notebook/desktop computers. Assuming that the […]
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Hello kinky friends! I’ve taken some time off and used it to stock up on kinky supplies and toys to tease and torment my lovely subs. I have a fun new assortment of gags, nipple clamps, anal plugs, beads, sounds, and more with which to threaten and torture you. I’ll be posting pictures and videos in the coming weeks so that you can fantasize about exactly what I’ll do to you when you visit my dungeon. I’m booking now for the New year, so reach out today and set up a time to live out your deepest desires. I can’t wait to meet you!
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The other day I was looking through my Google Analytics, and I found that I’m receiving a lot of visitors from around the world. Out of 196 countries, I’ve received visitors from 138 countries. I must say, this is very flattering! So first of all, thank you to everyone who visits my site, whether you’re around the corner or around the globe. Sadly, I can only do in-person sessions with those who travel to me, or those who pay my travel costs to come to them. I’ve received countless emails along the lines of “I can’t come to Toronto to see you, and I can’t afford to bring you here, and there are no great dommes where I live”, followed by expressions of sadness and frustration. Luckily, thanks to high speed internet providers, built in cameras in laptops and phones, and innovations in general, Online Domination is a service I am able and happy to provide! How does online domination work, you ask? It’s simple – we engage in a video chat, and for the duration of the session, you follow my instructions as though we were together in person. The only difference is, instead of me doing things, I’m ordering […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy This is a very quick post just to stay in touch. Having been so busy with work and my favourite holiday, Halloween, it’s not been easy to make time to write. Keep visiting though – many new blogs are coming, as are some new photos! I haven’t really posted much about my favourite activities, so I thought I’d devote this week’s blog to one of my top ten kinks – OTK (over the knee) spanking! I absolutely love having a grown man stretched across my lap for some much needed discipline. I have a particular sub in mind while writing this. He can take hours of punishment, whether I’m using a paddle, a flogger, a crop, a cane, or my favourite – my bare hand. It is so exciting watching my blank canvas turn deep pink and then bright red. I like to take my time, running my fingers lightly over the warm flesh between round of smacks, enjoying the heightened sensitivity and teasing my poor helpless sub. Let me know if you’ve been misbehaving lately at home or at work. I’ll be happy to give you the spanking you deserve… 😉
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