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Why book a session with Mistress Mindy when I can have you at my beck and call?
Hello lovelies, So many clients inquire about sessions and then we go back and forth working out a time that works, enjoy the session, and look forward to booking again. For some subs, it’s once a month. For some, it’s once every few days. As much as I can appreciate a good routine, one of my favourite client relationships is when a sub asks to be at my beck and call. What does this mean? It means a client provides me with a generous tribute at the beginning of a month, and then they’re on the clock so to speak. I can contact them at any time and demand their presence, and they need to accommodate my desire, or suffer the consequences. Now, I do need to point out that it’s not something I do with new clients – it requires trust (both mine and the client’s) and comfort. Additionally, it is well discussed beforehand to ensure it’s within reason for the sub. For example, if there are family obligations on the weekend that must be considered, obviously I won’t demand his/her presence at that time. One of my favourite subs, C, has offered this testimonial to describe November of […]
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Merry Kinkmas from your favourite Toronto Dominatrix, Mistress Mindy
Hello kinky friends! In the spirit of the season (and to answer the hundreds of you emailing and asking about an Amazon Wishlist!), I thought I would revamp my existing one, bring it up to date, and link it more prominently on the blog and my site! You can find the link here: http://a.co/1BkJpRN I of course welcome any and all gifts from my favourite subs and anonymous admirers. Quite a few of you have chosen to send me an item you’d like used on you for the session you’ve booked – and I have to say, I love that. I’ve had some requests as well for an address to send random gifts and mail to. I will be opening a PO Box soon, and will post the address here for all to see! I would love to see what kinds of things you’re all dying to send my way. Christmas has always been a huge deal for me. I love the season – the family, the friends, the wine, the food – it’s all very special to me. It’s been quite a pleasure to incorporate my love of the holidays into some of my sessions! Yesterday, I had the pleasure […]
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The Strongest St. Andrews cross in the GTA – maybe Canada?
Hello lovelies! As my last blog was a bit more about scheduling than seduction, I was inspired today to talk about my favourite piece of furniture in my dungeon-in-progress – my custom built St. Andrew’s Cross! There’s a reason why I’ve boldly asserted that I have the strongest St. Andrew’s cross in the GTA – possibly Ontario – maybe even Canada! I’m sure the experienced among you have seen the commercially available crosses on the market. I’ve owned a few of them myself! I find them to be attractive, but fairly flimsy. Since I specialize in fairly exquisite torment and torture with subs of all shapes and sizes, I really needed something that was going to stand up to a lot! Like my subs, this cross can take a beating! Not only is it double the usual thickness, it’s also chained to studs in my wall. I have personally attached over 600 pounds of weight to the cross, and while it’s designed to move, it doesn’t budge. That’s the other thing – my cross is designed to swing out from the wall with the right pressure, leaving the sub dangling a bit forward. It’s a unique position for sure, and […]
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Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Mindy shows off World Cup Soccer form in her CBT
Hello my kinky loves! Today I have for you another guest entry from a sub who is particularly gifted with words. As many of you know, I adore ballbusting and have been playing in that way with this sub for some time now. Once he read the guest entries on my blog, he begged to have the chance to submit one! I must say, I’m pleased with what he sent me. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did! Play balls! One of my favourite kinks is having my mistress tie me up and control my every move, as she contemplates how to inflict excruciating pain to my cock and balls. My favourite activity in this regard is ball busting, and Mistress Mindy is the greatest ball buster of all time. Nothing can match the look of impish glee that crosses over her face as she dishes out pointed kicks to my vulnerable testicles as I thrash about on her St Andrew’s cross, tied and vulnerable. She knows how much I love the sharp then blindingly spreading agony that radiates from my swollen vulnerable balls when she laces into me. A recent session is a case in point. […]
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The right gamble might pay off with Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Mindy
Hello lovelies, My website often has stories for your enjoyment. This one fits a few categories, so I thought I’d share it on my blog. Hope you enjoy! It was a Friday night and I was feeling lucky. It’s not often I get to hit the casino, but tonight I found myself with a few extra bucks and thought I would enjoy a little Texas Hold ‘Em. The lights and dinging of the machines gave me a little shiver as I made my way through the maze of tables. I sat down at a table with 6 other players. I put down my $100 and found myself with a small stack of chips, but nobody at the table had more than $200, so I figured I was ok. The first few hands I played conservatively and didn’t get much in the way of cards. But I won a couple of small pots and put in my blinds. After an hour, I was about even. A couple of players left the table, and I was enjoying my third drink when I caught a whiff of perfume from over my right shoulder. I turned and saw the most stunning woman standing there, […]
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Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Mindy's magnificent clevage
Hello lovelies. When I am out and about and people ask me what I do for a living, and I tell them I’m a dominatrix, almost every one of them is fascinated. They ask how long I’ve been doing it, how I got into it, is it safe, etc… But the one question that intrigued me enough to write about it on my blog is: Where do you get your clients from? More relevant to all of you – where and how do YOU find a dominatrix, and how do you ensure she’s the right domme for you? As great as it would be to say it’s a brick and mortar solution like Walmart, where you can go out, browse shelves and head to checkout – sadly it’s not that easy. Granted, you can look into the kink community and head for fet events and possibly meet a Dominatrix there, but it’s a bit of a crapshoot. For most of my clients and many out there, finding the right Domme follows today’s trend of instant gratification and online shopping. In order to preserve privacy and feel safe, most clients search from their phones, tablets and notebook/desktop computers. Assuming that the […]
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Hello kinky friends! I thought I’d post a much overdue update! After some prolonged and much needed vacation time, I’m back in the saddle (so to speak) and enjoying play again! Feel free to reach out to schedule a session. If you’ve contacted me in the past few months and haven’t received a response, my sincerest apologies – I’d be happy to hear from you again and set up a time to meet and play! Today’s blog focuses on one of my true passions. It’s one I understand is rarely offered by pro Dommes, and similarly not often requested by subs – but I have finally found a devoted toy who is willing to endure my more sadistic treatment, purely for the pleasure of seeing me happy! Not a born masochist, this sub has been dutifully pushing his limits since meeting me last year, and has found himself willing and eager to go above and beyond to prove his devotion to his Goddess. I started out slow, putting on some soft music, lighting some candles, and stripping him down slowly. Sometimes I am cold and clinical when I’m doing needle play, but as this was his first time, I wanted […]
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Hello kinky friends! I’ve taken some time off and used it to stock up on kinky supplies and toys to tease and torment my lovely subs. I have a fun new assortment of gags, nipple clamps, anal plugs, beads, sounds, and more with which to threaten and torture you. I’ll be posting pictures and videos in the coming weeks so that you can fantasize about exactly what I’ll do to you when you visit my dungeon. I’m booking now for the New year, so reach out today and set up a time to live out your deepest desires. I can’t wait to meet you!
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This Toronto Dominatrix loves torturing captive subs and slaves with temperature play. There are many ways to play with the sensation of temperature torture – both ice and molten wax are fun extremes with which to experiment. In my experience, most subs are familiar with ice play, and quite a few have heard of wax play. It’s very different once you’ve been at the mercy of a sadistic Domme who is committed to using differing temperatures to titillate, torment, tease, and test a sub’s vulnerable, exposed and bound body. I’d like to share with you a picture I took during a recent session. This sub was originally very hesitant about heat play, but decided that he trusted me enough to move forward, push his limits, and enjoy the sensations that extreme temperature can bring. Now wax play is one of his very favourite pursuits, and he absolutely loves leaving himself completely at my mercy. As much as I enjoy using ice and wax individually, I find that the combination makes for an exceptionally erotic experience. The contrast is deeply stimulating, and I look forward to introducing curious new subs to the wonders of temperature play.
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The other day I was looking through my Google Analytics, and I found that I’m receiving a lot of visitors from around the world. Out of 196 countries, I’ve received visitors from 138 countries. I must say, this is very flattering! So first of all, thank you to everyone who visits my site, whether you’re around the corner or around the globe. Sadly, I can only do in-person sessions with those who travel to me, or those who pay my travel costs to come to them. I’ve received countless emails along the lines of “I can’t come to Toronto to see you, and I can’t afford to bring you here, and there are no great dommes where I live”, followed by expressions of sadness and frustration. Luckily, thanks to high speed internet providers, built in cameras in laptops and phones, and innovations in general, Online Domination is a service I am able and happy to provide! How does online domination work, you ask? It’s simple – we engage in a video chat, and for the duration of the session, you follow my instructions as though we were together in person. The only difference is, instead of me doing things, I’m ordering […]
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