A dedicated Toronto Dominatrix is not held back by social distancing

Hello my kinky (hopefully healthy!) lovelies!!

It goes without saying that we are in the midst of an unprecedented and insane time at the moment. I wanted to start by saying that I hope you and all of your families and loved ones are safe and healthy, and that you stay that way until this mess ends!

I have to hand it to you guys – even in the midst of this crazy pandemic, you wonderful folk have been emailing in droves wondering how we can connect, how you can serve me, and how we can make your fantasies a reality. In light of that fact, and to hopefully address some of your questions (and maybe give you some filthy ideas!) I have written a rather lengthy blog on the subject.

Let me start by saying I have received some interesting, wild and, what some of you have referred to proudly as “utterly indecent” requests in the midst of a quarantine.

Allow me to say this: I ALWAYS welcome your emails and requests, as I would never want to shame anyone for wanting anything. I take every request on an email-by-email basis, and will do everything in my power to make your kinky fantasies come true. As always, unleash your fantasies and send me all your kinky requests.

If you’re more the type who needs to see a menu before you’re hungry enough to order, I proudly present:

MISTRESS MINDY’S COVID-19 KINK MENU – A distance approach to BDSM

The first and most seemingly obvious option for distance BDSM sessions while in isolation is Skype/FaceTime/Zoom. I’ve conducted these encounters for years with subs who, for whatever reason could not make the journey to meet me in person. Whether they reside in London, Tokyo or even Cape Town, thanks to our web-conferencing technology, distance never has been a huge issue. I can attest that video software does a wonderful job at fulfilling the need for personal connection and fetish play. Quarantine is an excellent time to experiment with this form of session, if you haven’t already! Below, I’ve outlined some recent scenarios that have taken place over cam – perhaps you’ll feel inspired!

– One on one video chat – the standard, not that different from your work meeting. But instead of numbers and projections, you’re taking instructions on how much to pinch your testicles or slap your own face for me. Or perhaps I’m telling you to hide certain objects inside yourself.

– On-call or else – this is a fun way to extend our time together. This one requires you to keep your camera on and be on call for a number of hours. I will check in on you. I will call to you. You had better be available when I call you, and ready to follow my instructions. If you’re not, you are punished.

– Watching Porn together – screen sharing is a magical thing. I can share some of my favourite videos with you, and you can share some of yours with me. Together we can watch, discuss, review, laugh at or simply revel in the billions of hours of fine adult material available online. I might even give you a sneak peek of some of my favourites from the members-only area of a network or two I belong to.

– Tutorials – this can be for singles or couples, but imagine your very own Masterclass from Mistress Mindy, where I can advise and teach you techniques with certain toys, props and implements. Or, if you’re a couple, I can instruct the two of you how to better punish and reward each other. I expect some voyeurs to enjoy that one as well.

– Sissy Fashion Shows – I miss seeing sissies and cross dressers showing off their pretty little outfits for my amusement. But the beauty is, you have a full closet and all of your own materials at home, so you can make yourself pretty for me and show off on camera. Hope you have some moves though, as I will expect you to dance!

– Self-humiliation – Just because you’re not with me, doesn’t mean I can’t make you embarrass yourself. Imagine dumping your own golden all over yourself. Or perhaps I will order you to hold your tiny cock up against your condo window for the world to see. Perhaps you’ve never enjoyed the taste of your own cum, and I will have ideas how you can change that. Perhaps I’ll shame you into using my pictures to excite yourself all week, collecting all of your cum in a glass, and then at the end of the week, you’ll enjoy a nice big frothy milkshake for me on camera.

– Cooking Class – sure, you know how to feed yourself. But do you really know how to COOK for yourself? I will order you through your kitchen, making you cook a specific meal. Perhaps ahead of time I will have sent you some special ingredients.

– Shopping Trip – Remember going to malls and shopping? Well, thanks to screen sharing and online shopping, we can enjoy a wonderful day of shopping together. Whether you’re spoiling me or we’re buying treasures for your personal chest, let’s have fun filling that cart.

Of course, not everything involves a camera or video chat. I have other ways of having my fun with you.

– Texting – some people enjoy simple and casual texting conversations with a friend more than the idea of having to look good on camera. I am happy to provide different Whats App or texting options and we can formally but informally stay in touch. And obviously, if I want you to do something, I’m going to let you know.

– Chastity – One of my favourite things to do, quarantine or not; I love locking up subbies and controlling their releases. Some magical devices are now available offering wifi chastity control, but sometimes a good old fashioned lock and key has that irreplaceable quality.

– Life Coaching – With so much time at home, a number of you have inquired about routines, developing better habits, and strategies for how to improve your attitudes both during and after the quarantine is over. This is certainly something I’m happy to discuss with you, and help you through. Whether it’s developing or sticking to a workout routine, starting a stricter diet, or achieving your hobby or work goals, I can help you get on track and do it all.

– Edibles – No, not that type of edible. My edibles are typically more brown and yellow than green. I have been told my baking is wonderful, and my personal special ingredients make them absolutely delicious. So whether you like brownies, chocolate chip cookies, perhaps an extra sweetened apple juice, make your requests as my kitchen is open for business. Ask me at the right time of month, and you may even be able to enjoy offerings with some ruby red in them.

– Clothing items – During a pandemic, one must work out often to replace the typical physical activity they’d be doing. That means lots of workouts and lots of sweaty socks. With the additional energy, I also find myself making more time to enjoy some of my favourite adult websites during the day, which means you would LOVE the panties I have to peel off when I finish expending that energy. Did I mention everything I send is vacuum sealed? Really packs in the moist freshness.

– Custom story-time – If you’ve visited my website in the last 7 years, you know I was one of the first dommes in Toronto to provide stories about some of my favourite adventures and fantasies. As such, I’ve been asked before to write custom stories centered around specific fantasies featuring personalized characters. If you’re interested in a feature story about you and me and possibly others, let’s discuss!

As you can see, this is the tip of the iceberg. One thing this time inside has done is promote creativity and ingenuity. The human spirit is strong, and so is our drive to fulfill our kinkiest desires. Contact me today and let’s discuss how we can explore your kinks together.