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Whether you deserve a light spanking or a bloody beating, Mistress Mindy is the Toronto Dominatrix who will do it right
Hello Kinky loves! It’s been a while! Hope you haven’t spotted any tumbleweeds rolling across this blog… In all honestly, it’s been a hell of a start to the year! Things have taken a little longer than predicted to settle down, but now that they are, I’m raring to get going on some of my kinkier resolutions for the year! I’m sure I have a few lucky subs willing and eager to sacrifice their flesh to feed my desires? 😉 In that vein, I saved some pictures from a recent experience, and thought I’d share with you. I often get messages wondering just how hard I’m capable of hitting. I guess I look like a delicate flower! That could not be further from the truth. I have a group of very dedicated submissives who are into what I call “extreme spanking”. These sessions are prolonged and very painful. They consist largely of heavy, constant spanking with my hand and with any implements we may choose to incorporate. I will tell you, I have done sessions like this lasting 6 hours, with breaks for my arm, but not long ones. I can inflict as much pain as you are comfortable receiving. […]
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Why book a session with Mistress Mindy when I can have you at my beck and call?
Hello lovelies, So many clients inquire about sessions and then we go back and forth working out a time that works, enjoy the session, and look forward to booking again. For some subs, it’s once a month. For some, it’s once every few days. As much as I can appreciate a good routine, one of my favourite client relationships is when a sub asks to be at my beck and call. What does this mean? It means a client provides me with a generous tribute at the beginning of a month, and then they’re on the clock so to speak. I can contact them at any time and demand their presence, and they need to accommodate my desire, or suffer the consequences. Now, I do need to point out that it’s not something I do with new clients – it requires trust (both mine and the client’s) and comfort. Additionally, it is well discussed beforehand to ensure it’s within reason for the sub. For example, if there are family obligations on the weekend that must be considered, obviously I won’t demand his/her presence at that time. One of my favourite subs, C, has offered this testimonial to describe November of […]
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Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Mindy is so detail-oriented, you might say she can be a bit anal.
Hey lovelies,  This latest blog is focused on the subject of a consistently large number of requests! One of the staples of D/s, anal play can be immensely satisfying for both beginners and experts alike. I know I sound like a broken record here, but it’s truly one of my favourite kinks!  A recent sub, A, came to me dying to try anal play but desperately afraid that it would hurt. He had spent years pleasuring himself to scenes of busty, Dominant women bending men over and plowing them with large strap-ons, but when he’d tried even small toys on himself, he was greeted with burning and pain. He was desperate to let an experienced Domme guide him through his first anal session. He quickly found that when he was aroused, his nervousness faded a bit, and he felt very comfortable with me. I used heated lube, a gentle, lubed finger, vibration, distraction, and plenty of time to ease him in – and what do you know, before the end of the session, he was bent over my massage table, taking my 6 inch strap on up the ass and begging for a bigger one! We have another session scheduled this […]
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Hello lovelies! It’s been a while – the move was more dramatic and involved than I anticipated, and it’s been exhausting but fun getting the new dungeon set up! A few of you eager ones have had sneak previews and sessions in an unfinished space, but I’m thrilled to announce that both the hardcore and the softcore rooms are open for business! I’d like to talk a little bit about the St. Andrews cross pictured in this post. Lovingly handmade for me a few years ago, this cross is sturdier than any I’ve seen yet. It’s anchored to studs in the wall and can support up to 600 pounds. This isn’t your beginner cross! I have had some mouthwateringly intense sessions with this thing – let’s just say the sturdiness has been tested as many have lost their footing and had to rely entirely on the cross to hold them up. That’s what happens when you’re tied up and tormented by this Goddess! I’m thrilled with my new dungeon and play space. The softcore room is a delightfully comfortable place to get acquainted and introduce beginners to the world of femdom. A comfy couch serves as a place to sit […]
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Hi again lovelies! I thought I’d dedicate this blog to a service that is surprisingly popular with my subs – and that is Dominatrix Lifestyle Coaching! Whether you need help staying on track with homework, getting your ass to the gym, watching what you eat, keeping your house clean, quitting smoking, or anything else, I have a very particular brand of motivation that can bring you in line quite quickly. I’ll give you an example to show you what I mean. I have been helping a number of teachers who are just beginning their careers. The transition from student to teacher can be very difficult for them. Some of them have slipped into the habit of arriving at classes unprepared or without lesson plans, taking far too long to grade and hand back assignments, throwing on movies in class instead of teaching a lesson, using their phone inappropriately during class, and basically acting unprofessionally towards the staff, parents, and students. Strict supervision and after class accountability has been shown to improve these issues and their overall productivity at work and in their personal lives. You see, some of you will remember a time when teachers had more authority in the […]
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Hello kinky friends! I’ve taken some time off and used it to stock up on kinky supplies and toys to tease and torment my lovely subs. I have a fun new assortment of gags, nipple clamps, anal plugs, beads, sounds, and more with which to threaten and torture you. I’ll be posting pictures and videos in the coming weeks so that you can fantasize about exactly what I’ll do to you when you visit my dungeon. I’m booking now for the New year, so reach out today and set up a time to live out your deepest desires. I can’t wait to meet you!
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