Posted by: Mistress Mindy
I wanted to touch on a subject I feel very strongly about. I often get emails from potential clients who are hesitant to divulge the extent of their fantasies for fear of scaring me off. I understand that confessing your innermost desires to a sexy, confident stranger can be a bit intimidating. I absolutely get how daunting that can be. However, I want to assure anyone reading this that it is virtually impossible to shock or scare me! Even if I don’t accommodate a particular kink, I will NEVER judge anyone for their private fantasies. Please, don’t hesitate to share your thoughts with me. Get weird! Let your inner freak out! This is a safe space. I respect the enormous amount of trust my clients place in me and honour it with complete discretion.
In the same vein, I know I have a privacy policy on the website, and I’d like to take this chance to emphasize how seriously I take this. I have measures in place to protect the privacy and identity of everyone who visits me. I have been lucky enough to meet some incredibly successful people in the course of my kink career. I believe everyone has the right to a private life without judgment about their choices, sexual or otherwise. I am proud to provide a safe environment for everyone who chooses to live out their kinks with me. The cornerstone of the kink community is safe, sane, and consensual conduct. I deal with adults who have healthy fantasies and interests they want to explore safely with a professional. I will always treat your personal information with the utmost respect.
I wanted to highlight a few of the unconventional requests I’ve gotten, in the hopes that someone reading this starts to feel more comfortable with their particular kink. I welcome bizarre and wonderful kinks and am almost always game to try something new.
One of my favourite unconventional sessions was a messy food fight scenario. This sub, who we’ll call L, had a fantasy that involved a gorgeous woman in a bathing suit throwing juicy fruits at him, shoving him to the ground and overpowering him, and smearing ice cream and toppings all over him. I put down a bunch of tarps and stocked up on all the fun foods I could think of – his particular interest was in fruit, so I had strawberries, cherries, and blueberries. I also got a bunch of different flavours of ice cream, chocolate sauce, and whipped cream. I started out wrestling him to the ground and stripping his clothes off. I bound his hands behind his back and had him watch as I stripped down to my bathing suit and fetched the large picnic basket I had stocked with everything. Watching his eyes widen as I grabbed the first handful of fruit was a blast. I thought it was going to be strange smearing food all over someone, but I really got into it quickly! We had an hour and a half together, rolling around, laughing and getting filthy. He moved away after a few more messy sessions, but I remember those food fights fondly!
Some of my other favourite unusual kinks involved costumes. I have one sub who just LOVES a gorgeous woman in a serious outfit and a clown nose (you know who you are!). A lot of the time I session in a corset, leggings, and sexy leather boots, but certain clients prefer me in tight yoga pants and a tiny tank top. Given enough notice, I can also accommodate costume requests. I’ve worn scrubs, sexy nurses outfits, riding gear, a Mrs. Claus costume, a monster mask, and devil horns.
Of course all of my subs love to see me dressed up, but a lot of them like to be dressed up as well! Beyond the usual love for ladies lingerie, a lot of different role plays can be enhanced with the right costume. You might be surprised to hear that puppy role play is quite popular! One of my favourite subs in the world had his own poodle suit custom made. We’d meet in a hotel room, catch up over a couple glasses of wine, and then he’d get changed and we’d get started! I had a lot of fun walking him around on a leash, feeding him from his special dish, and disciplining him when he tried to lick me a little too enthusiastically.
Whatever you can come up with, I’d love to hear it! I’ll be sharing more stories over the next few weeks. From eyeball fetishes to speculums, acupuncture to injections, I’ve been blessed to experience tons of wonderful kinks over the years.
Finally, a shout out to all of my wonderful subs, as well as the people who follow my blog from far away! Your emails and questions are wonderful and make me smile daily. Keep them coming!
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