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Why book a session with Mistress Mindy when I can have you at my beck and call?
Hello lovelies, So many clients inquire about sessions and then we go back and forth working out a time that works, enjoy the session, and look forward to booking again. For some subs, it’s once a month. For some, it’s once every few days. As much as I can appreciate a good routine, one of my favourite client relationships is when a sub asks to be at my beck and call. What does this mean? It means a client provides me with a generous tribute at the beginning of a month, and then they’re on the clock so to speak. I can contact them at any time and demand their presence, and they need to accommodate my desire, or suffer the consequences. Now, I do need to point out that it’s not something I do with new clients – it requires trust (both mine and the client’s) and comfort. Additionally, it is well discussed beforehand to ensure it’s within reason for the sub. For example, if there are family obligations on the weekend that must be considered, obviously I won’t demand his/her presence at that time. One of my favourite subs, C, has offered this testimonial to describe November of […]
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Merry Kinkmas from your favourite Toronto Dominatrix, Mistress Mindy
Hello kinky friends! In the spirit of the season (and to answer the hundreds of you emailing and asking about an Amazon Wishlist!), I thought I would revamp my existing one, bring it up to date, and link it more prominently on the blog and my site! You can find the link here: http://a.co/1BkJpRN I of course welcome any and all gifts from my favourite subs and anonymous admirers. Quite a few of you have chosen to send me an item you’d like used on you for the session you’ve booked – and I have to say, I love that. I’ve had some requests as well for an address to send random gifts and mail to. I will be opening a PO Box soon, and will post the address here for all to see! I would love to see what kinds of things you’re all dying to send my way. Christmas has always been a huge deal for me. I love the season – the family, the friends, the wine, the food – it’s all very special to me. It’s been quite a pleasure to incorporate my love of the holidays into some of my sessions! Yesterday, I had the pleasure […]
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The Strongest St. Andrews cross in the GTA – maybe Canada?
Hello lovelies! As my last blog was a bit more about scheduling than seduction, I was inspired today to talk about my favourite piece of furniture in my dungeon-in-progress – my custom built St. Andrew’s Cross! There’s a reason why I’ve boldly asserted that I have the strongest St. Andrew’s cross in the GTA – possibly Ontario – maybe even Canada! I’m sure the experienced among you have seen the commercially available crosses on the market. I’ve owned a few of them myself! I find them to be attractive, but fairly flimsy. Since I specialize in fairly exquisite torment and torture with subs of all shapes and sizes, I really needed something that was going to stand up to a lot! Like my subs, this cross can take a beating! Not only is it double the usual thickness, it’s also chained to studs in my wall. I have personally attached over 600 pounds of weight to the cross, and while it’s designed to move, it doesn’t budge. That’s the other thing – my cross is designed to swing out from the wall with the right pressure, leaving the sub dangling a bit forward. It’s a unique position for sure, and […]
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The other day I was looking through my Google Analytics, and I found that I’m receiving a lot of visitors from around the world. Out of 196 countries, I’ve received visitors from 138 countries. I must say, this is very flattering! So first of all, thank you to everyone who visits my site, whether you’re around the corner or around the globe. Sadly, I can only do in-person sessions with those who travel to me, or those who pay my travel costs to come to them. I’ve received countless emails along the lines of “I can’t come to Toronto to see you, and I can’t afford to bring you here, and there are no great dommes where I live”, followed by expressions of sadness and frustration. Luckily, thanks to high speed internet providers, built in cameras in laptops and phones, and innovations in general, Online Domination is a service I am able and happy to provide! How does online domination work, you ask? It’s simple – we engage in a video chat, and for the duration of the session, you follow my instructions as though we were together in person. The only difference is, instead of me doing things, I’m ordering […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy I thought I’d talk about an activity that I offer that seems a bit edgy to some in the scene. It’s called sounding (a form of CBT). Basically, it involves inserting rods of various sizes into the urethra. The sounds are typically made from surgical grade steel, but there are variations that vibrate or deliver electric shocks internally. Sounding is best left to those with experience as the urethra can become damaged if proper technique is not used. That being said, with the proper Domme, sounding can provide an intense sensation unlike anything else. If you’re looking for something that’s a little out there, I recommend trying it out! Under proper supervision (and obviously with the proper equipment and hygiene) you might discover a new obsession! This picture was taken during a sounding session with one of my more experienced clients. He’s had his urethra gradually stretched over the years, and can now take quite a large sound with no problem. In fact, we’ve ordered a set with larger sounds so we can continue to stretch him out! I incorporated a medical theme into this session, and told him that Dr. Mindy was going to continue […]
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Happy New Year to my fellow kinksters! It’s been a busy time over the holidays, and your Mistress caught that dreaded flu. Feeling a lot better now, but I have quite a bit of pent up energy! Thankfully I have many subs and slaves eager to be back under my feet. I thought I’d share some shots from a recent CBT session. This one is fairly light on the pain side of things, but we had a lot of fun and got some great pictures. Slave J came over eager to be immobilized and tormented under my sexy thigh high boots. I quickly got him bound and wrapped and lowered him to the floor. Then, of course, I walked off to get a glass of wine, leaving him writhing helplessly in nervous anticipation. No matter how much they squirm and protest, I always find them fully hard when I return! As you can see, I had J bound so that only his cock and balls were visible and accessible – but only to me. I couldn’t help but smile as I gathered clothespins, floggers, feathers, ribbon… I contemplated bringing out the candles for some wax play, but J is still […]
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