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Why book a session with Mistress Mindy when I can have you at my beck and call?
Hello lovelies, So many clients inquire about sessions and then we go back and forth working out a time that works, enjoy the session, and look forward to booking again. For some subs, it’s once a month. For some, it’s once every few days. As much as I can appreciate a good routine, one of my favourite client relationships is when a sub asks to be at my beck and call. What does this mean? It means a client provides me with a generous tribute at the beginning of a month, and then they’re on the clock so to speak. I can contact them at any time and demand their presence, and they need to accommodate my desire, or suffer the consequences. Now, I do need to point out that it’s not something I do with new clients – it requires trust (both mine and the client’s) and comfort. Additionally, it is well discussed beforehand to ensure it’s within reason for the sub. For example, if there are family obligations on the weekend that must be considered, obviously I won’t demand his/her presence at that time. One of my favourite subs, C, has offered this testimonial to describe November of […]
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The Strongest St. Andrews cross in the GTA – maybe Canada?
Hello lovelies! As my last blog was a bit more about scheduling than seduction, I was inspired today to talk about my favourite piece of furniture in my dungeon-in-progress – my custom built St. Andrew’s Cross! There’s a reason why I’ve boldly asserted that I have the strongest St. Andrew’s cross in the GTA – possibly Ontario – maybe even Canada! I’m sure the experienced among you have seen the commercially available crosses on the market. I’ve owned a few of them myself! I find them to be attractive, but fairly flimsy. Since I specialize in fairly exquisite torment and torture with subs of all shapes and sizes, I really needed something that was going to stand up to a lot! Like my subs, this cross can take a beating! Not only is it double the usual thickness, it’s also chained to studs in my wall. I have personally attached over 600 pounds of weight to the cross, and while it’s designed to move, it doesn’t budge. That’s the other thing – my cross is designed to swing out from the wall with the right pressure, leaving the sub dangling a bit forward. It’s a unique position for sure, and […]
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Toronto Dominatrix Funnel Gag for taking Golden Showers to a new level
Hello lovelies! I was all ready to post my next ball busting blog post (keep an eye out for it over the next little while!!), but a recent purchase and accompanying session inspired me so much I had to interrupt myself!   As regular readers will already know, one of my all time favourite kinky passions is golden play. I have a virtual stable of devoted subs who adore consuming my golden nectar, and I’m always looking for new ways to heighten the experience. For one of my favourites, H, I decided I wanted to do something more forceful – I had a sudden vision of him on his knees, hands bound behind his back, forced to consume my piss until I decided he’d had enough. Now, when I have ideas like this I move heaven and earth to make them happen, but thankfully that wasn’t necessary in this case!  I hopped over to Amazon and found myself this delightful toy. It has a flexible hose and a removable mouthpiece for easy cleaning. It buckles behind the head to keep it firmly in place. I placed it on my Amazon Wishlist immediately and gave H a nudge in that direction via […]
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Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Mindy Bondage
Hello Lovelies, I receive emails all the time from people asking about bondage. Every level – from ‘I’ve never been bound at all’ to ‘I need to be restrained, and not just a pair of handcuffs behind my back’ to ‘I barely want to be able to breathe’. Granted, the last one ventures into the extreme with mummification (which I LOVE), but we’ll save that for another day. I should also be clear that while I am familiar with Shibari (the magnificent art of intricate Japanese rope play), this blog will not deal with that. Bondage requires a lot of trust, whether you’re experimenting with a partner, or even with your sexy Toronto Domme! You are giving complete control to another person, so make sure you’re comfortable with the person you choose to explore with. Bondage is perfect for restraining a sub for a number of purposes, but I’ll focus on two. Pain – perhaps you deserve to be punished because you’re not applying yourself properly, or you’re a masochist who loves the feeling of a well-placed paddle; of course, human nature is to attempt to avoid pain. The right use of ropes and cuffs helps you receive that beating […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy Today I had a lovely strap-on session (one of my specialties of course) with slave Kevin, who hasn’t had the pleasure of my company for weeks as he’s been traveling for business. Needless to say, his tight ass was missing my strap-on and he couldn’t wait to get into my playspace and on his knees. I greeted him at the door and he handed me my tribute and a lovely bottle of wine he’d brought back from his most recent trip to Argentina. Kissing his cheek, I took his coat and gestured him towards the basement stairs – by now he knew exactly where we were headed. I called down and offered him a drink, and then grabbed some bottled water from the fridge and met him on the sofa in the basement. As I passed one of the bottles to Kevin, his eyes traveled down my shapely legs to my feet, clad in a pair of exquisite satin peep-toe pumps he had sent me as a lovely surprise while he was away. I laughed and took a seat next to him, stretching my legs out so my feet rested in his lap. “God, I’ve missed […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy I thought I would start sharing some of the stories from the depths of my dungeon with the people who frequent my site. As a professional and lifestyle Domme, I’m quite active in the scene and always have something fun going on in my basement lair. If you have any questions or comments about any of the stories I share, you can feel free to email me at mistressmindy@torontodomme.com. While I am the star of all of my sessions, they wouldn’t be nearly as fun without an enthusiastic and willing sub to play with! Today’s slave, Ryan, shares my fetish for mummification and sensory deprivation. He came to me initially as a complete novice with a head full of dirty, kinky scenarios he was eager to try. Tonight I decided we would do a complete mummification wrap with duct tape. Of course, once I had him immobilized and completely at my mercy, I couldn’t resist indulging in some CBT and a lot of very frustrating tease and denial play! I started off having Ryan strip naked for my inspection. He had prepared himself nicely for me – clean, freshly shaven, hands at his sides and ready to […]
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