Hello Lovelies, I receive emails all the time from people asking about bondage. Every level – from ‘I’ve never been bound at all’ to ‘I need to be restrained, and not just a pair of handcuffs behind my back’ to ‘I barely want to be able to breathe’. Granted, the last one ventures into the extreme with mummification (which I LOVE), but we’ll save that for another day. I should also be clear that while I am familiar with Shibari (the magnificent art of intricate Japanese rope play), this blog will not deal with that. Bondage requires a lot of trust, whether you’re experimenting with a partner, or even with your sexy Toronto Domme! You are giving complete control to another person, so make sure you’re comfortable with the person you choose to explore with. Bondage is perfect for restraining a sub for a number of purposes, but I’ll focus on two. Pain – perhaps you deserve to be punished because you’re not applying yourself properly, or you’re a masochist who loves the feeling of a well-placed paddle; of course, human nature is to attempt to avoid pain. The right use of ropes and cuffs helps you receive that beating […]
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Hello lovelies. When I am out and about and people ask me what I do for a living, and I tell them I’m a dominatrix, almost every one of them is fascinated. They ask how long I’ve been doing it, how I got into it, is it safe, etc… But the one question that intrigued me enough to write about it on my blog is: Where do you get your clients from? More relevant to all of you – where and how do YOU find a dominatrix, and how do you ensure she’s the right domme for you? As great as it would be to say it’s a brick and mortar solution like Walmart, where you can go out, browse shelves and head to checkout – sadly it’s not that easy. Granted, you can look into the kink community and head for fet events and possibly meet a Dominatrix there, but it’s a bit of a crapshoot. For most of my clients and many out there, finding the right Domme follows today’s trend of instant gratification and online shopping. In order to preserve privacy and feel safe, most clients search from their phones, tablets and notebook/desktop computers. Assuming that the […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy (featuring ‘D’) This weekend I wanted to let one of my favourite new clients take the wheel and share an email about his experience with me. Perhaps someday you could be writing me a similar note! “You asked me to contact you today to share my thoughts about our wonderful session last night. After being with many hundreds of clients over the years, I think you know something profound and transformative happened to me last night. I am personally in shock over how transcendent some of those moments with you felt to me, and I am trying to analyze why. Sure, I had always wondered about having a gorgeous woman doing me with a strap-on and drinking watered down nectar, but this went way beyond ticking off those acts off my checklist. I think it had everything to do with you. Let me explain, if I can, why I am thinking this way. When I got home, I ate a late dinner, and went to bed and undressed. I was still wearing the red nylon g-string. I remembered that I had poured a few drops of that dark amber liquid onto the material, so of course I […]
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Hello lovelies! It’s been a while – the move was more dramatic and involved than I anticipated, and it’s been exhausting but fun getting the new dungeon set up! A few of you eager ones have had sneak previews and sessions in an unfinished space, but I’m thrilled to announce that both the hardcore and the softcore rooms are open for business! I’d like to talk a little bit about the St. Andrews cross pictured in this post. Lovingly handmade for me a few years ago, this cross is sturdier than any I’ve seen yet. It’s anchored to studs in the wall and can support up to 600 pounds. This isn’t your beginner cross! I have had some mouthwateringly intense sessions with this thing – let’s just say the sturdiness has been tested as many have lost their footing and had to rely entirely on the cross to hold them up. That’s what happens when you’re tied up and tormented by this Goddess! I’m thrilled with my new dungeon and play space. The softcore room is a delightfully comfortable place to get acquainted and introduce beginners to the world of femdom. A comfy couch serves as a place to sit […]
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Hello my lovelies, I am just getting ready for a night out, but I wanted to make something clear first because I’m not thrilled right now. Apparently somebody in Toronto has been using the name Mistress Mindy on Backpage. I’ve been asked about it a few times, so I want to clarify right here on my blog – that is NOT me. A few important differences to note: – She is an escort. I am a Dominatrix. My interactions with clients do not involve sexual favours. – She is in her 40’s and old enough to be my mother. – The phone number she posts from is apparently used in police stings. I have added some of her pictures below just in case she is claiming to be me. Any posts with the pictures below are NOT me. So, to summarize – there is only one Mistress Mindy, and you are currently reading her blog. The only way I allow new clients to contact me is through my website, TorontoDomme.com. I will never pay for third party website ads or post a phone number. Enjoy the rest of the weekend and stay tuned on my blog and/or social media as I’ll […]
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Hi again lovelies! I thought I’d dedicate this blog to a service that is surprisingly popular with my subs – and that is Dominatrix Lifestyle Coaching! Whether you need help staying on track with homework, getting your ass to the gym, watching what you eat, keeping your house clean, quitting smoking, or anything else, I have a very particular brand of motivation that can bring you in line quite quickly. I’ll give you an example to show you what I mean. I have been helping a number of teachers who are just beginning their careers. The transition from student to teacher can be very difficult for them. Some of them have slipped into the habit of arriving at classes unprepared or without lesson plans, taking far too long to grade and hand back assignments, throwing on movies in class instead of teaching a lesson, using their phone inappropriately during class, and basically acting unprofessionally towards the staff, parents, and students. Strict supervision and after class accountability has been shown to improve these issues and their overall productivity at work and in their personal lives. You see, some of you will remember a time when teachers had more authority in the […]
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Hi guys!! First of all, I’d like to thank you for the enormously positive feedback on my last blog! From your comments I think it’s evident that my enjoyment of kink comes through pretty clearly in my writing, so I’m definitely going to endeavour to keep this blog updated at least once weekly, possibly more if I’m playing more! For this week’s blog, I wanted to make a bit of an announcement. Those of you who have visited me know that I have been using my basement as a makeshift play space for quite a while. There are some drawbacks to this – due to constant flooding and structural issues, I wasn’t able to make the aesthetic changes I would have like to make to improve the atmosphere and provide a true kinky ambience. Well, that’s no longer an issue! As of July 1st, I’m moving to a new space which I can customize to my perverted heart’s desire! With gleaming hardwood, a kitchen, and two separate, large playrooms, this space will allow for a lot more fun and flexibility. I’m setting up a “softcore” and “hardcore” space. One will be more muted, with cozy furniture, equipment for more regular […]
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Hello kinky friends! I thought I’d post a much overdue update! After some prolonged and much needed vacation time, I’m back in the saddle (so to speak) and enjoying play again! Feel free to reach out to schedule a session. If you’ve contacted me in the past few months and haven’t received a response, my sincerest apologies – I’d be happy to hear from you again and set up a time to meet and play! Today’s blog focuses on one of my true passions. It’s one I understand is rarely offered by pro Dommes, and similarly not often requested by subs – but I have finally found a devoted toy who is willing to endure my more sadistic treatment, purely for the pleasure of seeing me happy! Not a born masochist, this sub has been dutifully pushing his limits since meeting me last year, and has found himself willing and eager to go above and beyond to prove his devotion to his Goddess. I started out slow, putting on some soft music, lighting some candles, and stripping him down slowly. Sometimes I am cold and clinical when I’m doing needle play, but as this was his first time, I wanted […]
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Hello kinky friends! I’ve taken some time off and used it to stock up on kinky supplies and toys to tease and torment my lovely subs. I have a fun new assortment of gags, nipple clamps, anal plugs, beads, sounds, and more with which to threaten and torture you. I’ll be posting pictures and videos in the coming weeks so that you can fantasize about exactly what I’ll do to you when you visit my dungeon. I’m booking now for the New year, so reach out today and set up a time to live out your deepest desires. I can’t wait to meet you!
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Hello everyone! It’s been a while since I’ve updated the blog, but I wanted to pop in and let you know I’ve had some email mishaps recently – if you’ve sent an email in the past two weeks and haven’t recieved a response, please resend it! I know for a fact some new emails went missing, and I’d love to hear from you again and take the time to respond to your questions and requests for sessions. I’m also thrilled to let you know that I’ve got tons of new content coming along in the next few weeks, so stay tuned! Plenty more fantasies, pics, and vids will be uploaded, as well as the usual blog posts about the kinky fun I have with all my subs! If there’s anything in particular you’d like to see or hear, I’m definitely open to suggestions as well. Looking forward to interacting with you all again! xoxoxo Mindy
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