Hello Lovelies, I receive emails all the time from people asking about bondage. Every level – from ‘I’ve never been bound at all’ to ‘I need to be restrained, and not just a pair of handcuffs behind my back’ to ‘I barely want to be able to breathe’. Granted, the last one ventures into the extreme with mummification (which I LOVE), but we’ll save that for another day. I should also be clear that while I am familiar with Shibari (the magnificent art of intricate Japanese rope play), this blog will not deal with that. Bondage requires a lot of trust, whether you’re experimenting with a partner, or even with your sexy Toronto Domme! You are giving complete control to another person, so make sure you’re comfortable with the person you choose to explore with. Bondage is perfect for restraining a sub for a number of purposes, but I’ll focus on two. Pain – perhaps you deserve to be punished because you’re not applying yourself properly, or you’re a masochist who loves the feeling of a well-placed paddle; of course, human nature is to attempt to avoid pain. The right use of ropes and cuffs helps you receive that beating […]
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Hello lovelies. When I am out and about and people ask me what I do for a living, and I tell them I’m a dominatrix, almost every one of them is fascinated. They ask how long I’ve been doing it, how I got into it, is it safe, etc… But the one question that intrigued me enough to write about it on my blog is: Where do you get your clients from? More relevant to all of you – where and how do YOU find a dominatrix, and how do you ensure she’s the right domme for you? As great as it would be to say it’s a brick and mortar solution like Walmart, where you can go out, browse shelves and head to checkout – sadly it’s not that easy. Granted, you can look into the kink community and head for fet events and possibly meet a Dominatrix there, but it’s a bit of a crapshoot. For most of my clients and many out there, finding the right Domme follows today’s trend of instant gratification and online shopping. In order to preserve privacy and feel safe, most clients search from their phones, tablets and notebook/desktop computers. Assuming that the […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy (featuring ‘D’) This weekend I wanted to let one of my favourite new clients take the wheel and share an email about his experience with me. Perhaps someday you could be writing me a similar note! “You asked me to contact you today to share my thoughts about our wonderful session last night. After being with many hundreds of clients over the years, I think you know something profound and transformative happened to me last night. I am personally in shock over how transcendent some of those moments with you felt to me, and I am trying to analyze why. Sure, I had always wondered about having a gorgeous woman doing me with a strap-on and drinking watered down nectar, but this went way beyond ticking off those acts off my checklist. I think it had everything to do with you. Let me explain, if I can, why I am thinking this way. When I got home, I ate a late dinner, and went to bed and undressed. I was still wearing the red nylon g-string. I remembered that I had poured a few drops of that dark amber liquid onto the material, so of course I […]
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Hello lovelies! It’s been a while – the move was more dramatic and involved than I anticipated, and it’s been exhausting but fun getting the new dungeon set up! A few of you eager ones have had sneak previews and sessions in an unfinished space, but I’m thrilled to announce that both the hardcore and the softcore rooms are open for business! I’d like to talk a little bit about the St. Andrews cross pictured in this post. Lovingly handmade for me a few years ago, this cross is sturdier than any I’ve seen yet. It’s anchored to studs in the wall and can support up to 600 pounds. This isn’t your beginner cross! I have had some mouthwateringly intense sessions with this thing – let’s just say the sturdiness has been tested as many have lost their footing and had to rely entirely on the cross to hold them up. That’s what happens when you’re tied up and tormented by this Goddess! I’m thrilled with my new dungeon and play space. The softcore room is a delightfully comfortable place to get acquainted and introduce beginners to the world of femdom. A comfy couch serves as a place to sit […]
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Hello my lovelies, I am just getting ready for a night out, but I wanted to make something clear first because I’m not thrilled right now. Apparently somebody in Toronto has been using the name Mistress Mindy on Backpage. I’ve been asked about it a few times, so I want to clarify right here on my blog – that is NOT me. A few important differences to note: – She is an escort. I am a Dominatrix. My interactions with clients do not involve sexual favours. – She is in her 40’s and old enough to be my mother. – The phone number she posts from is apparently used in police stings. I have added some of her pictures below just in case she is claiming to be me. Any posts with the pictures below are NOT me. So, to summarize – there is only one Mistress Mindy, and you are currently reading her blog. The only way I allow new clients to contact me is through my website, TorontoDomme.com. I will never pay for third party website ads or post a phone number. Enjoy the rest of the weekend and stay tuned on my blog and/or social media as I’ll […]
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